What is the best way to reduce stress?
A lot of folks think that the best way to reduce stress is to meditate or to exercise. But there is something else that works even better.
Sleep. There is no better way to help stress dissipate from your life than doing this one thing. Stress is a normal part of life. During a pandemic, it can be particularly acute. By allowing yourself enough time to sleep and rest, you’re giving yourself the tools you need to be at your best to take on whatever comes your way. It does so much for you besides just helping to reduce stress.
Sleep repairs the brain
Your brain must descend into delta waves for about 8 hours within each 24 hour period to be able to adequately repair itself and process daily events. In fact, without adequate sleep, not only do you feel drowsy the next day, but your cognitive function suffers. You also have slower brainwave activity during the day. Chronic sleep deprivation can lead to depression, weight gain, and even a compromised immune system.
You need adequate sleep, yes. As someone who teaches and meditates everyday, I also have to mention that meditation comes in at a close second in terms of reducing stress. Because the brain enters a relaxed brain state during meditation, it’s allllmost like taking a nap (not quite – sleeping is a very different thing than meditation – but you get the idea). If you do both things, that is incredibly helpful in helping you live a more relaxed existence in general. Add in some exercise? You are on your way to a really “chill” kind of life.
Improve your sleep
If you’re like a lot of people, you spend your evening on a screen, right up until a few minutes before you head to bed. Sometimes you even take a screen (such as phone) to bed with you so you can read, or even use it as an alarm clock. As someone who lives in and participates in modern society, I, too, am guilty of this.
I’m going to give you some advice: try to avoid being on a screen right before bed, especially if you have trouble sleeping.
Blue light
Modern electronic devices emit significant amounts of blue light. You may recall from your high school science classes that red light has a long wavelength (and therefore less energy) and that blue or purple light has a short wavelength (and more energy). Just beyond the blue-violet wavelength is UV light that you cannot see, but is responsible for sunburns and even sunburn on the eyes (and you can experience temporary blindness from it).
Blue light has its benefits, though. It’s what makes the skin produce vitamin D when you’re outside and it makes the sky blue. It can even help ease the symptoms of Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). During the day, the sun emits all wavelengths of light, and the blue/violet light helps with maintaining attention and wakefulness. Your body produces serotonin to help keep you awake and alert. For sleep, you need the opposite: melatonin.
You can imagine what happens when you’re trying to get some rest and you’ve been staring at a screen. When you are on a device for hours at a time, your exposure to blue light significantly increases. You probably have those energy efficient bulbs at home but…most of them are designed to put out blue light. All that blue light you see essentially tells your body that it’s “daylight.”
Blue light also contributes to eye strain, and puts you at increased risk of developing macular degeneration later on in life. It also reduces the amount of melatonin your body puts out to help you relax and go to sleep. Melatonin is essential for winding down. It’s also known to reduce the risk of cancer. This is what you want circulating around in your body when you go to bed.
Ways to improve your sleep over time
What’s a person to do? I’ve compiled some tips and ideas of what I’ve done to help improve my own sleep (and these are research-backed):
- Limit your exposure to blue light as you are able.
- Get eyeglasses (with a prescription for computer distance or no prescription if you don’t need it) that have an anti-reflective coating that will help filter out some of that blue light. Another option is using photochromic lenses that filter out UV and blue light indoors or out.
- Get a blue light filter for your devices. You can try different apps, but many phones require that you do all your internet browsing within the app – so that’s a huge drawback. The Night Shift feature on Apple phones makes your screen look amber-colored, but it doesn’t reduce the blue light your phone emits by all that much. Alternatively, you can get screen protectors for your phone that block blue light.
- Get off all screens at least an hour before bed. A couple hours before bed is even better.
- Try to use LED lights that have a warm-color coating on them to help block out blue light.
- Avoid sleeping with any light. If you must have lights on to see, consider using red light (which is the lowest energy/wavelength and won’t wake you up more than you already are).
- Keep all screens out of the bedroom – which, with even just a glance can disrupt your sleep cycle.
- If you MUST use a phone, tablet, or computer at night, dim the screen on it at night. We’ve all had those nights where we’re trying to finish a project and need to be working. But, by reducing the screen brightness, you can reduce the amount of blue light that reaches your eyes.
The hour before bed to help you rest better
Do you have a “wind down” routine? If you answered yes, take a look at the suggestions below and evaluate your routine. If you answered no, start thinking about ways you’d like to begin the “wind down” process. By doing so, you’re teaching your body to develop a habit of slowing down before bed. This can promote a better sleep cycle over time and help reduce stress overall.
- Take a shower or bath and use aromatherapy (if you’re not too sensitive to the scents); also if you’re the kind of person who “wakes up” with a shower, you may want to avoid taking one at night)
- Drink chamomile tea or other “nighttime” tea
- Read a REAL book if you must read, choose something that won’t be so engaging that you “can’t put it down.”
- Turn off all screens and avoid using bright lights before bed
- Avoid working out or getting exercise less than a couple hours before you try to go to bed
How do you do with screen time, especially in light of the pandemic?
Well, this article couldn’t have come at a more perfect time. It is like you read my mind as I was just saying to my husband that I don’t remember a time that I have sleep perfectly in the longest time now. So, definitely will be trying some of your tips here as I could use all the help I can get with sleep and getting more of it if possible. So, thanks, my friend for sharing. Excited about your new projects for you and hope you are all doing OK during this time. Many virtual hugs!! <3
Hi, Janine!! How have you been!? Oh, sending you the BIGGEST hugs! You are always such a faithful commenter and I’m so grateful to you. I hope you are doing well and hopefully you get some needed rest and getting more sleep. Hehe. Thank YOU for coming by. Miss you tons and hope you’re hanging in there, too. 💜
Hi Cynthia…
Like many people this writing of yours comes at a perfect time. During this infection I like to think that we have all been spending more time caring for ourselves. Looking over society we realize our need for proper nutrition and getting proper rest. For me I have sought out foods which are real and not coming through a take out window or a box loaded with ingredients none of us can read.
As you are aware I spent a great deal of time in the far north of Canada. During the winter months I experienced no more than 4 hours a day of daylight. The reverse of that arrived with summer. The land was called the land of the midnight sun because we rarely saw darkness Then to add to the mix I worked shift work for years many of which were 8500 feet underground as a miner. Imagine the direction of what happened with my sleep. I used to refer to my sleep as a crash and burn sleep due to sheer exhaustion.
Today my sleep is balanced and diet and proper exercise a must…. Hugs for Canada as always…
Heyyy there, dear Rolly!
What you say here resonates. I have been trying to care for myself, as well. I recently read an article about how, if you like to take naps, you almost should not while you are isolated at home. It’s because were moving around less than usual. Therefore, it can disrupt sleep later in the day. Nutrition and rest or so fundamental to good health. Eating real food and getting outside are also important.
I knew you had spent that time in the far north of Canada. But I swear, every time you write me a comment or an email, I seem to learn about a whole new aspect of your life. I’m always learning new things about adventures you had. I hope you have all of these stored up in a memoir somewhere. lol. The “land of the midnight sun” sounds like it could be a good title for said memoir. 😉 8500 feet underground as a miner? That is too crazy. I can imagine how it would mess with your sleep though, given that you’d experience no more than four hours of daylight or no more than four hours of darkness pending on the season. Crash and burn sleep? Sounds like something I wouldn’t recommend. Hah! Thank you for commenting here, dear friend. I will talk to you soon!
Do good to get your web update email.
I did try earlier to connect but some how your comments we wouldn’t allow.
I so hope you got my personal email reply we hich seems ages ago now.
As I resonated.
Just know my dear Cynthia I am with you in mind body and spirit.
Lots of love my frien.
Know you have been missed. 🥰💖😘🤗💕
Sweet Sue!
Thank you always for your comments. I so appreciate you, and I have missed you so. I do have your personal email, and I do need to respond to that. My delay in commenting and responding has been due to our school moving to online learning, and we having no extra time in which to really work on this website at all. And I just finished a three day mandala meditation retreat that I lead online. It was a beautiful experience, though it doesn’t compare to being in person. But the weeks of planning paid off, and I got invited to paint a Mandala mural at the refuge center where the retreat was held. I, too, and with you in mind, body, and spirit. Lots of love back to you, and I hope you have been well. I have so much to tell you, and I can’t wait to send you an email!
Hi Cynthia,
This post is right on time – so wonderful to absorb your wonderful suggestions.
Sending you love, hugs, and lots of positive energy. I’m enjoying the sunshine as much as I can and hope you are as well.
Love,
Maria
Sweet Maria!
It is so, so good to hear from you! Thank you for your beautiful energy. Thank you for your steadfast support. Thank you for your patience with me even as I have taken on other responsibilities at work, leaving me with less time to work on this site. But, I will always be in touch, and I am just an email away if you ever need anything. You are also a ray of positive energy. I’m glad you are enjoying the sunshine, and I hope that you, your doggies, and your loved ones are all doing well. I think of you often, and I need to send you an email! Much love, Cynthia